The SA CoParents Align model
Reflection → Comparison → Alignment → Options → Agreement
SA CoParents Align is a structured, child-centered methodology for organizing two parents' independent perspectives before a mediation, counseling session, parenting-coordination meeting, or court-connected conference. It is designed to be shared with colleagues, courts, and referring professionals.
Reflection
Each parent reflects privately.
Comparison
Align lines up both perspectives.
Alignment
Shared ground and differences, without blame.
Options
Neutral options and resources.
Agreement
Alignment becomes the foundation.
How a case moves through the model
- 1
Create a Case
The professional chooses the family and the issue to address.
- 2
Invite Each Parent
Each parent receives a private invitation and completes their reflection independently. Responses are never exchanged between parents.
- 3
Generate Joint Alignment Report
Align identifies shared understanding, differences in perspective, child needs, and subjects requiring discussion.
- 4
Guide the Conversation
The professional uses the report to move the parents from alignment toward agreement.
The universal 10-page report
Every Joint Alignment Report follows the same neutral structure, so parents, professionals, and courts always know where to look.
- 1Joint Alignment Overview
- 2Your Child at the Center
- 3Where You Align
- 4Where Your Perspectives Differ
- 5What Might Your Child Need?
- 6Options & Resources
- 7Questions for Parent Conversation
- 8Professional Conversation Guide
- 9Parent Action Plan
- 10Joint Alignment Summary
What the model will not do
- Neutral language only — "Both parents identified…", "The parents expressed different perspectives regarding…"
- No custody recommendation, diagnosis, finding of fact, or ranking of parents.
- One parent's raw responses are never shown to the other parent.
- Safety concerns are routed to the professional through a separate, safety-sensitive process.
- If only one parent participates, the result is an individual reflection — never called a joint report.
SA CoParents Align is an educational, organizational, and mediation-preparation platform. It does not replace professional judgment, legal advice, psychological evaluation, safety assessment, or individualized case management.
Reflect Individually. Understand Together. Align Around the Child. Build Agreement.